a MoM and a BoY

My first born is already 3 years old. He knows so many things that impress me and his daddy.. Sometimes he does tricks and moves that aren't so common for children of his a age..

He absolutely brings sunshine at home.. He is one of our sources of joy and laughter! As everyone knows, we just had an addition at home - Shari..

I can say that we had a good preparation for the coming of our 2nd born. Big Daddy and I tried to prepare our first born - Job on being a big brother.. And now that Shari is here with us.. and she needs a lot of attention and care, big brother Job seems to be a little jealous.. Yeah -- and that's really a challenge for us, his parents to ensure that he feels that we don't love him less..

I wanna know your thoughts blogger friends, could you share some thoughts on how we would make our little boy feels that our love for him has not and will never change?!

Marriage Quote

Marriage is NOT a ritual or an end. It is a long intricate, intimate dance together and nothing matters more than your own sense of balance and your choice of partner..

Open Letter for my Man

Daddy,

At times...

I know i get a lil cranky..
I know i get a lil lazy..
I know i get a lil unreasonable..
I know i get a lil childish..
i know i get a lil demanding...
I know i get a lil impatient...
I know i get a lil pushy..
I know i get a lil bully....
I know i get a lil sensitive..
I know i get a lil impractical..
I know i get a lil stubborn..
I know i get a lil hard headed...

and I know I've been real bad...
and yet I'm still your FAVORITE GIRL..

That only confirms.. it takes a great man to marry me.. (-:

I LOVE YOU VERY MUCH and thanks for loving me at my worst!

Quotes

A successful Marriage requires falling in love many times... always with the same person!

3 Roles... ROLLED into 1

Being a Mom is the toughest and most rewarding job I never thought I'd have and I'd do for the rest of my life..

I am a mother of two who tries to joggle and manage things.. My first born, Job is now 3 and has so many needs.. He needs me to witness how he explores and discovers new things.. He needs me to support him in everything that he does.. clap and reward him for his little accomplishments.. He sure is one smart boy who likes to learn...

Our lil princess has just arrived.. "shari" as we call her, is one tiny lil baby who needs a lot of attention, care and love.. She cries when she's hungry and when she poops.. She cries when she's feeling cold and when she's needing arms to wrap her. and truly her smile is priceless!!!

I am also a wife.. A wife who has duties and responsibilities to her husband..I serve as his confidante, friend and partner.. I'd like to support him in every way possible. Ensuring that he still feels that he is the man, I chose to marry because i will love him for the rest of my life.. and that love is what we need to keep burning..I am also an individual.. I am an entity with needs.I have weaknesses to battle out.. I would stumble.. I would get tired.. I could fail.. I would get disappointed.. Life could be out of tune, at times.. .

But good thing I have the best people with whom I could get and regain my strength..

My Matt - hubby
My Job - you'll always be my sunshine!
My Shari - my lil princess

She hasn't arrived yet...

Its the 3rd of December.. I am on my 38th weeks of pregnancy.. I have been been off work since Wednesday last week, expecting to give birth anytime soon..

A lot of people have been texting and asking if I already gave birth.. The answer is NOT yet.. uh-huh and that's up until this very minute..

Last Friday, I went to my OB-GYNE to have my pre-natal check and was told that I am 1-2cm open.. but upto now, no pain of labor is on the way..

We are all excited to have our lil girl this month.. But I think we gotta wait for a lil bit more... and she sure is worth all the wait!!!!

To everyone who is praying for my safe delivery, my lil princess and my fammy... Thank you very much! Having an addition in the family is truly one great happiness that we are sharing to y'all..